I‘m having one of those weeks.
No, Internet, not one of those weeks- one of THOSE weeks!
The kind where you forget about all the junk that habitually tears you down and tires you out and steals your smile and knots up your shoulders and causes you to walk slower and all of the things that turn you into an unhappy person if you don’t catch it and stop and forget it.
Well, Internet, this week I did just that. I’m not sure why I’m so incredibly happy; there’s no particularly wonderful thing that happened to me on Sunday to induce all of the joy that I’m experiencing. I just decided to be, and it worked. It worked. Mostly, I looked around and noticed all of the wonderful things God bestowed upon me. I know that if you dig into my background, if you listen to my story, there’s a lot of bad. Between the dead mother and the alcoholic father and the psychotic stepmother and the siblings that never got on the right path, I have a lot to whine about, and trust me, I have and I do and I will. I’m a whiner (if you don’t believe me, start reading.) But, I have so much to be thankful for, so many blessings! For each trial, each smelly old shoe that gets thrown at me, I am handed a vase full of wildflowers. God holds me and says, “Yeah, I took away your mom and your dad, but that’s because Chris and Lori were meant to raise you. Yeah, I took away your dream of Vanderbilt, but that’s because I wanted you at Alabama. Yeah, I took away that least week of summer, but that’s because you needed to meet your best friends.”
I didn’t always see that, and I don’t always see it now, old and seasoned as I am at 18 years of age. It took me years to understand why my mom died, and even now I don’t comprehend the whys, I just appreciate that God knows what He is doing, and that by relinquishing to His control, my life is exponentially more joyful and fulfilling. And even so, I still struggle with giving up control of my own life. It’s the human in me.
But, this week isn’t like that. For this week- so far at least, until some sneaker hits me in the nose- I am filled with the happiness that all of this provides. And I’m starting to see the pleasure that all of these little things- the tiny things that I usually fly by as I’m focusing on the “bigger picture”- can provide if I’ll just let them. And, Internet, let me count my blessings, name them one by one.
- Sunday, I went to the grocery store. I bought all the things I wanted: Oatmeal Squares, chocolate cereal bars, Cream of Wheat. I spent $15. It was glorious.
- Then, I had dinner with my best friends. We watched a movie. We laughed. We made noise. There was much fun to be had and we didn’t mind if we did, thank you very much. My beautiful, beautiful friends.
- On Monday, I got to sleep. I GOT SLEEP! Some time after college, I may actually get the recommended eight hours a night, or seven, or six, but let it be said that for the entirety of my college career so far, I have only received an average of 5 hours a night. I know, it’s my own fault.
- Monday night I went to class and the professor- a man who I’ve really comes to dislike because, my god, he reminds me so much of the dentist, and although I wouldn’t admit this in real life, the dentist gives me the heebie jeebies, and actually induces panic attacks- kept talking about the “scholarship.” Now, I don’t pay too much attention in this class, but I’m not dumb. Nobody else knew what he was talking about either, so we asked and he mentioned (just now!) that, oh yeah, we’d be getting a $2,000 scholarship for the class. Oh, a $2,000 scholarship? Neat. A FREAKING TWO THOUSAND DOLLAR SCHOLARSHIP. Excuse me while I happy dance for at least three weeks straight. The most wonderful part about this wasn’t even the money: It was my Lord, who is so freaking wonderful. The college ministry at Calvary Baptist challenged college students to give a lunch offering- something that they would miss. Initially started out with $5, but at the last minute, I doubled that- something I would miss in my grocery budget this week. I did miss it when I went to the grocery store, but a day later, I got my entire next semester paid for. I sent this in an email to Lori: “They say there aren’t miracle anymore, but my God is miraculous. He fed the 5,000 with two loaves of bread and five fish, and he paid for my college next semester with $10.” How insanely wonderful. God is SO good. So good to me.
- Then, today was my full day, although I didn’t have history. But I woke up at 7 this morning and ran around all day, but it was just so nice. This morning I got a cup of coffee and sat in the library blogging and facebooking and chatting. I went to class, and I went to lunch with those wonderful friends. I worked on my history paper. I read the Great Gatsby. I noticed all the beautiful things life had to offer.
In the land that is plentiful
Where Your streams of abundance flow
Blessed be Your name
Blessed Be Your name
When I'm found in the desert place
Though I walk through the wilderness
Blessed Be Your name
Every blessing You pour out
I'll turn back to praise
When the darkness closes in, Lord
Still I will say
Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be Your name B
lessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be Your glorious name